When you decide to change careers, you often have to grapple with the expectations of important people around you, such as a partner, who may expect you to maintain the status quo. A two-pronged approach can help you think more creatively about your future and honor your responsibilities without allowing yourself to be exclusively defined by other people’s needs.

First, create a list of possible future selves and ask your partner to make a list of their own. Then exchange lists and have an open, honest conversation. Exploring how your visions come together or diverge is vital for the viability and growth of both your career and your relationship.

Second, seek feedback from people outside your friends and family. The people closest to you are more likely to give you conservative, protective advice. But people who have less of a personal stake in what you choose to do may be willing to give more even-handed, honest feedback.
This tip is adapted from “ Reinventing Your Career — When It’s Not Just About You,” by Herminia Ibarra

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